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Sterling Sherrell's avatar

The fact I understand the context of 'quiverfull' scares me. I was a California liberal pastor who served on the pastoral staff of a conservative church in Oshkosh Wisconsin.

We had a whole contingent of parents who were into the Bill Gothard teachings. So, I mean it when I say congratulations to you for coming out as well as you have.

I know there are lots of stories you could tell. I will be listening...

Elizabeth Vish's avatar

But what about this denim jumper? https://www.zara.com/us/en/denim-trf-jumpsuit-p04365083.html?v1=364092241&v2=2419869 Click to the fourth picture for the full effect.

Seriously, SO many of us went through this to various degrees. Reminds me of the monologue by Gloria, in Barbie, about how it's impossible to be a woman - both be beautiful and be modest...

Abbi Nye's avatar

That 4th photo--SO HOLY.

Elizabeth Vish's avatar

"We said be attractive to your husband, didn't we????"

Abbi Nye's avatar

Clearly what we need is a cardigan over this open back situation.

Elizabeth Vish's avatar

Or a scarf. Over the back, arms, front, legs, feet....

Jacob McDonald's avatar

It was great to hear your perspective and learn more about the women I know in my life who came from this background. Helps me understand better from the male perspective. Great read, thanks for sharing!