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Thalia Toha's avatar

Abbi- Symbolic annihilation is such an important topic. I spoke with a black Everest climber once and his point still rings true: “if you’ve never seen anyone like you doing what you want to do, how could you ever believe you could do it?” Thanks for this reminder, Abbi.

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Cindy's avatar

Hi Abbi

Your thoughts on who has been “erased from the North Country are interesting. There were no Black students in my graduating class at PCS. I had several friends of Indian and Pakistani decent; their parents were often on the faculty of SUNY or Clarkson.

Two of my childhood memories involve my parent’s attempt to widen our circle. They participated in giving international college students a local connection. I remember my mom trying to figure out how to feed Mehta ( our assigned student) within his cultural guidelines. She found a plant based bacon replacement that we could all eat. She and dad stayed in touch with Mehta for many years after graduated.

Th e other memory is a Black man that moved in with us for a while. He was from NYC, and trying to establish a home in the area for his family (which he eventually did). My child’s understanding of the situation was fascinated with the fact that his name was Gene and my mom’s name was Jean.

I know this isn’t the intent of your post, but I appreciate the memories that it brought up for me. Learning to live in a diverse society takes some extra effort when you've grown up in a closed system.

Thanks for the memories.

Cousin Cindy

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